Oh man - "hoeing the same row" - that has major connotations of slaves working on plantations. You should not say that, it is racist.

See how that works?

One thing that really strikes me is how you make major waves trying to get White people to change their words. Then you follow up by not only throwing insulting words at us like rice at a wedding, even making up a whole new lexicon, but then mocking us when we blanche at the insults.

Think of how you feel when White assholes attack you with truly racist rhetoric. Try and imagine that we might have the same reactions.